This photo was taken at the Art Reflections reception yesterday at Quentin’s school. He didn’t win an award but was recognized for his submission. I encourage him to participate in just about anything that’s available or offered through school, the community, etc. Growing up, my parents worked. And I was the youngest of 5 not counting my step-siblings. My parents were busy enough putting food on the table and ensuring our blended family didn’t kill each other. There wasn’t much time leftover for extra curricular activities. I was always so envious of the kids whose parents were super involved and at school all the time. The parents who knew all the kid’s names, who graded our papers in the bank of the classroom, those parents.
Art might not be Quentin’s “thing” but I’m glad he continues to submit his creations and involve himself in the different opportunities that his school offers. A lot of Quentin’s participation begins with me saying, “You are going to do this.” It normally ends with Quentin saying, “I’m glad I did it.” The only time I’ve been wrong (so far) was when I made him do the nature camp last summer. He still brings it up. But in my defense, I did let him miss the last day. I struggle with pushing myself to try new things. I wish I had the opportunities and the support that Q has. I definitely believe this affected me greatly.
I’m notorious for over-scheduling him at times. But, I guess I’m reliving my childhood through him and doing my best to give him as much exposure to what the world has to offer as I can. He’s a special little soul. Lately he’s driving me crazy and it’s 99% my own fault for enabling him and doing EVERYTHING for him. The kid can’t button his own pants. But, his heart is pure, he is kind, and he is my beautiful little boy. In life, what I know for sure is this – he will be a good friend/companion/confidante to others. He will be the person you call when you’re going through something- when you need a friend. Not because he gives good advice, but because he’s a calming presence that truly just brings joy when he’s around. He is a magnificent light in this world. I am lucky to know him and even luckier to have been made his mom.
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